Parenting.

A topic to be cherished upon and discuss for the betterment. My Views shared....


The first years of baby are magical, filled with promise and potential. There will be first steps, first teeth and first tears. Amid the excitement will be twinges of anxiety. In fact, by the time your child is crawling, your house will resemble one giant childproof playground. Of course, it's impossible to be completely prepared for everything your baby will experience. Just remember - These experiences are opportunities for you to praise, encourage, teach and model. This is your time to create a bond with your child that will outlast rebellion and separation.


Discovery Years ( 5 - 9 yrs) :The baby fat is gone, and so is your completely dependent child.An independent, more assertive spirit is awakening. Preferences in food, clothing and entertainment are declared. Personality traits and quirks are more defined. School is in center stage.


Tween Years ( 10 -14 yrs) : Welcome to the Tweens: a generation of fashion-conscious, fad-loving, filled-with-attitude youth. You thought angst was a teenage phenomenon. The more involvement you have in your child's life, the easier your communication will be. And remember communication is the key.


Flight Years ( 15 & up) : Teen years are wildly unpredictable. You still have the moodiness of the pre-teen years and the battle for independence intensifies.You do have the simple pleasure of watching your teenager make mature decisions and grow into adulthood. Don't feel too frustrated or desperate when your son or daughter defies your authority. Reducing dependence on parents is natural and necessary in this life stage. However, you can play a significant role in shaping the decisions your teen makes.

You should be authoritative without being authoritarian. You should be engaged in your child's education. Now is the time to reinforce character and build discipline so your teen can survive and thrive in the face of life's many lessons.